Condolence & Memory Journal

Paula,
A day rarely passes that I don't think of you. You will always have a piece of my heart with you and i will have fond memories of the times we spent together in mine.
Love you forever,
Ma Pam

Posted by Pamela Wiley - Windham, ME - Family Friend   February 12, 2019

Thinking of you Paula.

Posted by Vanessa Chaudhry - Northport, NY - Friend   February 11, 2019

Thinking of you Paula

Posted by Vanessa Chaudhry - Northport, NY - Friend   February 11, 2019

Candle

Paula we think of you often. Wish I had seen you more than I did. I miss you so. I will be doing something an I just want to tell you or just hear your wonderful voice our the phone. Paula I will always remember all the good time we had with you.
The world has lost a great lady.
Love you

Posted by Darline Tracy-Bellows - Anderson, SC - Friend   March 04, 2016

Miss you Paula

Posted by Vanessa - Northport, NY - Friend   February 12, 2016

Dear Paula, rest in peace, I am truly shocked by this terribly sad news.
My most sincere condolences to the Trimmier family and your little guy.

Posted by Francesco Tenti - Huntington, NY   March 03, 2015

Paula, I feel like we just spoke on the phone the other day. We had a rocky relationship in High School, but once we got over it we realized how much we had in common. There are so many things I wish I could could say to you, and I wish I had been there for you more. I love you and will always miss you and pray for you and Gavin. Xoxoxo

Posted by Vanessa chaudhry - Northport, NY - Friend   February 23, 2015

MY CONDOLENCES TO PAULA'S family.
Jesus said I am the resurrection and the life, he who believes in Me thou he die, yet shall he live," and PAULA will live big in our hearts.
Pastor Mary, South Windham Community Church.

Posted by Pastor Mary - Windham, ME - Friend   February 21, 2015

Oh Paula. I'm just so heartbroken. Even though it has been many years since we were together, I'll never forget how much we always laughed. Life with you was full of adventure and humor. Never a dull moment with you, Paula. From the first time I met you in keyboarding class (with your little southern/northern accent) I just knew that you were someone I'd never forget. I'll always remember your energy, your quick smile, your fearlessness, and your kindness. Rest peacefully, Paula. Love and prayers to the Trimmier family and to sweet Gavin. God bless.

Posted by Jeanine Demmie Mitchell - Gainesville, VA - Friend   February 21, 2015

God Bless her. She will be a sorely missed personality whom all will remember. God speed and safe travels luv.

Posted by Billy - Deltona, FL - SWG   February 21, 2015

Paula and I became fast friends in high school 20 years ago in Virginia. I have so many stories I could tell - but I'll just mentioned two that sum it all up.

The March after she moved to NY, I drove up from VA to visit her. It was St. Patrick's day and we decided to take the train into the city to enjoy festivities. This must have been the last gasping breath of using tokens for the train, but yes - still tokens the. She told me I could just squeeze in through the turnstyle behind her and it would be ok, no need to waste the token.

Yep - like a flash, 2 NYPDs - or MTA cops, I honestly don't remember! - had little 17-year old me cuffed. She's doing her best fast talking, I'm just sort of nodding and yes-sir, no-sir. Looking back, I know now they weren't going to haul me off to jail - but I was scared! But Paula had them laughing. That was how she was, she made you smile.

Fast forward to a couple of years ago when we found each other on Facebook. She pops up on IM one day and starts complaining about boys - HA! I "listened" and told her about a similar experience I had - about a long term former boyfriend of mine. She didn't miss a beat and cracked a joke about the guy I was dating senior year of high school, and there I am, laughing out loud in my office.

You are one of a kind, Paula Jean - in the best possible way.

Posted by Sara Mallory - Hamilton, VA - Friend   February 20, 2015

Candle

I also thought of Paula as a daughter. I met Paula when my son brought her home. I love her the first time I met her. I would have love to have her for a daughter in law but, she would have just been my daughter. Paula had a way that you just would fall in love with her.
I will remember our long, long talks on the phone. The time we went to Story Land. I had more fun watching Paula than my grandson. I have a lot of great memories of Paula. She live life to the fullish.
I can't believe I will not see that beautiful smile and wonderful laugh.
The world has loss a wonderful person.
May you rest in peace Paula!
Your family will be in our prayers

Posted by Darline Tracy-Bellows - Anderson, SC - Friend   February 20, 2015

Paula was such a great friend, I will cherish her great smile and laughter and spirit for life. Go to God Paula because he surely needed an angel as perfect as you.

Posted by christian powers - Gorham, ME - friend   February 20, 2015

I am so sorry! I remember the day Paula was born, what a beautiful baby she was, and so much more.

Posted by Aunt Jay Lyn    February 20, 2015

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Paula you will be greatly miss. I will always remember the great times we had together. Our long talks on the phone. How happy you were when you found out you were going to have a baby. I didn't think you could smile any brighter but you did. Rest in Peace.

Posted by Darline Tracy-Bellows - Anderson, SC   February 20, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with Paula and her family. Paula worked with me in Portland Maine for some time . Paula had the most infectious smile, she was smart as a whip and truly lighted up a room. It was durning this time we learned she was pregnant. From the moment she learned she was going to be a mom her world became the focus of what would be her greatest accomplishment her beautiful son Gavin. Paula was the most wonderful mom and the pictures she would share of her and Gavin could only be described as the most loving mother and son relationship. My heart goes out to all of her family in South Carolina and in Maine. I have no doubt she will be terribly missed. May the presence of Gavin help to make this sad journey just alittle bit easier.
Love and hugs and prayers to all of you ~

Posted by Julie Sinclair - Windham, ME - Co worker and friend   February 20, 2015

My dear Paula, may you rest in peace. You will be greatly missed. You were always such a wonderful sweet beautiful person and I know you're in heaven. I will miss you so very much. I have such wonderful memories of us and I promise to always cherish them in my heart.I can't believe you're gone cause it feels just like yesterday when we were hanging out and having great times and good laughs. Paula, I love you and I always will. You will live on in my heart and I know that your beautiful little boy has a beautiful angel looking down on him. May you rest in peace Paula until we meet again. I will always love you.

Posted by Raquel trombino - elmont, NY - friend forever   February 19, 2015

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Anyone who knew Paula will cherish their memories with her and the impact she left on their lives. She was someone whose joy was infectious and whose heart was so fragile. We laughed and cried. We supported and competed. We rode the same tumultuous wave of teenage angst and helped each other best we knew how. So many memories made for a life not nearly long enough.
My deepest condolences to Trimmier Family and all of those feeling this loss.
She is among the Wildflowers.

Posted by Kori Friedman - Clifton, VA - friend   February 19, 2015

Paula, was a nice and sweet young lady. She will be missed from the Single Mom's Bible Study at First Baptist Church of Spartanburg. Gone but not forgotten. Blessings, Latasha Penn

Posted by A friend   February 19, 2015

Paula was one of my best friends in high school at Robinson Secondary. We did everything together before both of our families moved in opposite directions. We reconnected a couple years ago and I'm so happy we did. I know she loved her baby boy so much and as well as her family. She was so happy to be reunited with all of them in Spartanburg, especially so Gavin could meet his Grandma. - Ashley & Mr. & Mrs. Trimmier, I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you know Paula will never be forgotten. - Love Always, Shana

Posted by Shana Knight - Herndon, VA - Friend   February 19, 2015

Paula, you will be truly missed by all and May God hold you in the Palm of his Hand. Love your uncle Ronnie

Posted by Ronnie Mullinax - Anderson, SC - uncle   February 19, 2015

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Paula, & Family,
We met way back at G.C. We were fast & close friends always. I am so truly sorry we all lost such a wonderful person. I hope you rest in peace. Prayers for your family. I just can not believe your gone.
Alexis Damiano-Blair

Posted by Alexis Damiano - Garden City, NY - friend   February 19, 2015

Paula it saddens me deeply that I will never get a chance to see or speak with you again, you will certainly be missed. You were a great friend and a wonderful mother. Until we meet again, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by Michael Pellegrini - West Hempstead, NY - Frend   February 19, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all during this difficult time

Posted by Allie Thomas-Fannin - Durham, NC - friend   February 19, 2015

Leave a condolence or a memory.

Posted by Megan Reilly - Deerfield Beach, FL - Friend   February 19, 2015

I met Paula when she was in 7th grade at McCracken. We used to take walks around Converse Heights, laughing and talking. :-) she was fun, outgoing, confident and beautiful. I am so very sorry for her loss. I wish her friends and family peace during this difficult time.

Posted by Joni Sanders Laycook    February 19, 2015

The world has lost and God has gained a true angel. I have so many fond memories of both Paula and Ashley from when we were kids growing up. Paula will be missed very much. My heart goes out to Eddie, Sonja, Ashley, and Gavin. You are all in my prayers.

Posted by Susan Butts - Columbia, SC - Cousin   February 19, 2015

Paula and I, although usually well behaved, always managed to find some trouble growing up. She was my idol as a child and I would follow her anywhere. During a storm and power outage, she grabbed me with one hand and a candle with the other. We hid under a table. She stated, "Come on Ash. We'll be safe under here." I simply said, "OK". it took two, maybe three seconds for my mom to call, "children, what are you doing?" I guess the smell of my burning hair gave us away. Needless to say, we were in trouble. Paula's next idea took place in the bathroom. She grabbed me by the hand and we took off. She must have stuffed me with, at least, 20 rolls of toilet tissue, and another 10 for herself. We came out of the bathroom, puppy dog frowns and all, and said, "we sorwey." By this time, we both looked like the giant marsh mellow man from, Ghost Busters. My parents laughed so hard, they forgot out us getting in trouble.
I see much of Paula's spirit and wit in Gavin everyday. Amidst the tears, Paula's smile still shines through. We are truly blessed to have Paula as such an intricate part of our lives. She and Gavin are glorious blessings. We love them both to the core! I find peace in my sorrow knowing Paula is with our Lord, too whom she completely gave her heart and soul! With every part of my being, I love you my dear sister and am so grateful to have you in my life. I will see you again!!!!!!!!!!!! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Posted by Ashley Trimmier - Spartanburg, SC - Sister   February 18, 2015

So very sorry for your loss! Praying for your family!!

Posted by Julia Shuler - spartanburg, SC - Member of First Baptist Spart   February 18, 2015

Sonja, Ashley, and Eddie, Am so sorry for your loss. My sympathy and prayers are with all of you at this sad time. Gail Mullinax

Posted by A friend   February 18, 2015

Praying for your family, especially your little man, Gavin.

Posted by Jennifer Wofford - Columbia, SC   February 18, 2015

We are so very sorry for your loss.

Posted by Kristen Cheeseman Dittman - Santa Barbara, CA   February 18, 2015

To Paula's family, we are so incredibly sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort for you at this time and sending love from members of Converse College class of 2002.

Posted by Lauren (Dabbs) Renaud - Columbia, SC   February 18, 2015

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Posted by Andrea Green - Spartanburg, SC   February 18, 2015

I thought of Paula as if she was my own daughter. I could not have loved her more even if she was. We had many fun times during the months she lived in my home. She enriched my live with her kindness. I will love her always.
Love you,
Ma Pam

Posted by pam wiley - Windham, ME - Gavin's grandmother   February 18, 2015